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Ask Yourself These Questions Before Getting Into A Relationship

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One of the most important things you can do before jumping into a relationship is to engage in self-reflection. 

By taking the time to reflect on your own wants, needs, and values, you’ll be better equipped to attract and maintain healthy relationships that align with your true self.

  • Question of

    Are you truly happy with yourself, or are you seeking validation from someone else?

    • Yes, I am completely happy with myself
    • I am somewhat happy with myself, but I seek validation from others at times
    • No, I am not really happy with myself and seek validation from others frequently

    Correct Wrong

  • Question of

    Is there anything from your past that you need to address before starting a new relationship?

    • No, my past is completely resolved
    • There are some things from my past that I could work on, but they won’t affect a new relationship
    • Yes, there are things from my past that could impact a new relationship if I don’t address them

    Correct Wrong

  • Question of

    Are you clear on what you want and need in a partner, or are you open to settling for less?

    • Yes, I am very clear on what I want and need in a partner
    • I have a general idea of what I want and need, but I’m open to compromise
    • I’m not sure what I want and need in a partner, and I may settle for less

    Correct Wrong

  • Question of

    Is there any emotional baggage that you’re carrying that could potentially impact your relationship?

    • No, I don’t have any emotional baggage that could impact a new relationship
    • There is some emotional baggage that I carry, but it won’t affect a new relationship
    • Yes, I have emotional baggage that could impact a new relationship if I don’t address it

    Correct Wrong

  • Question of

    Are you willing to compromise and work through challenges in a relationship, or do you tend to give up easily?

    • Yes, I am willing to compromise and work through challenges in a relationship
    • I am somewhat willing to compromise and work through challenges, but I have limits
    • I tend to give up easily in a relationship and don’t like to work through challenges

    Correct Wrong

  • Question of

    Is there anything you need to forgive yourself or others for before starting a new relationship?

    • No, I don’t need to forgive myself or others before starting a new relationship
    • There are some things that I need to forgive myself or others for, but they won’t affect a new relationship
    • Yes, I need to forgive myself or others before starting a new relationship, or it could impact the new relationship

    Correct Wrong

  • Question of

    Are you ready to be vulnerable and open with another person, or are you guarded and closed off?

    • Yes, I am ready to be vulnerable and open with another person
    • I am somewhat ready to be vulnerable and open, but I have some reservations
    • I am guarded and closed off, and it’s difficult for me to be vulnerable and open

    Correct Wrong

  • Question of

    Is there anything in your life that you need to prioritize before committing to a relationship, such as career goals or personal growth?

    • No, I don’t need to prioritize anything before committing to a new relationship
    • There are some things that I need to prioritize before committing to a new relationship, but they won’t affect the new relationship
    • Yes, I need to prioritize some things before committing to a new relationship, or it could impact the new relationship

    Correct Wrong

  • Question of

    Are you willing to communicate openly and honestly in a relationship, or do you tend to avoid conflict and difficult conversations?

    • Yes, I am willing to communicate openly and honestly in a relationship
    • I am somewhat willing to communicate openly and honestly, but I have some difficulty with it
    • I tend to avoid conflict and difficult conversations in a relationship

    Correct Wrong

  • Question of

    Is there anything in your life that could prevent you from being fully present and committed to a new relationship?

    • No, there is nothing in my life that could prevent me from being fully present and committed to a new relationship
    • There are some things in my life that could impact my ability to be fully present and committed, but they are manageable
    • I need to address things in my life that could prevent men from being fully present and committed to a new relationship

    Correct Wrong

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